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CIRCUMCISION
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Circumcision is sunnat, this is
one of the marks of distinction between the Muslims and the
Non-Muslim. It is reported that Hazrat Ibrahim (May Allah peace be
upon him) had his circumcision at the age of 80 years.
PROBLEM:-
Agewise the circumcision should be done between 7 and 12 years. Some
scholars are of the view that circumcision may be carried out when
the child is 7 days old. (Note: In the modern days of advance
medical science, some have their children circumcised in the
hospital when they 2 - 3 days old).
PROBLEM:-
When circumcising a boy if the earmarked portion is cut more than
half, it should be regarded as full operation. No fresh circumcision
is necessary. It however, less than is cut their fresh operation is
necessary.
PROBLEM:-
Converts to Islam need circumcision. If the convert is of advance
age and can not hear the pain etc of circumcision he need be
compelled to have the same circumcision can be undertaken by any man
who is experienced in this job.
PROBLEM:-
Circumcision is the responsibility of the father of the son. If
father is not alive, the child guardian there the grand father of
the child then his nominee in the Will. It is not the responsibility
of the maternal or paternal uncles (or their nominee). However if
the child is under the guardianship of his uncles, then can be
called upon the bear the responsibility.
PROBLEM:-
There is no restriction to bore the ears of the women. In the days
of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) women were
allowed to have their ears bored.
PROBLEM:-
Castrating men is haram, so is making them eunuchs. There is
difference of opinion if horses should be castrated, however it is
permissible other animals may be castrated if this yield meat of
quality. He goats is very mischievous in this regard. If he is
allowed to behave in his natural moods he becomes source of in
convenience, Beside, the meat of an un castrated he goat/sheep or is
definitely of a good standard both for eating or commercial
purposes.
EMBELISHMEND / DECORATION
Hazrat Ayesha (May Allah bless
her) has report that the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him) liked the fine scented perfumes and she used to apply
these scent/perfumes on his clothes which at times shove brightly in
his head and his beard. The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him) applied oil over his head and combed his beard. He has
said that the man who has (enough)hairs, he must take care of them,
wash them and apply oil and do combing. He has however forbidden
combing the hair daily, the idea being that man should not waste
time in self make up. He has advised to apply the collyrium of atmad
stone as it brightens and enhances the vision and eyesight and cause
growth of the eyelashes. The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace
be upon him) had his own collyrium container. He used to apply
collyrium each night with metal stick, three times in each eye.
PROBLEM:-
It is haram a woman uses man's hair as a lock of hair on head. There
is curse reported in the Hadees for doing for both the woman who
uses the lock and the woman who helps in this work. However it is
permissible the plaif or lock of hair is made from black cloth
straps or black thread, Similarly plucking the eye brows with pair
of steel prongs for the purpose of beautification is also condemned
in the Hadees Sharif.
PROBLEM:-
Boring ears of girls is permissible, but doing so for boys is not
permissible.
PROBLEM:-
Use of Henna (Hina, myrtle leaves) for woman is permissible, it is
an embellishment or thing of beauty. Girls can also use the henna,
but to apply Henna to small children without any reason is not
allowed.
PROBLEM:-
Asmad stone collyrium is allowed, but to use black surma or lamp
soot (kajal) for beauty or make up is impressible.
PROBLEM:-
Hanging picture of man (and woman) and animals is not permissible.
However paintings of scenes/scenario of holy places, spots of
natural growths such as trees, mountain rivers together with
monograms of letter etc all these as decorative pieces are
permissible.
PROBLEM:-
Use of black hair-dye is not permissible, but colouring the hair
with Henna and Katam leaves (made as hair-dye) is permissible.
RIGHTFUL EARNING
There is a Hadees in the Bukhari
Sharif, according to which the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace
be upon him) has said that a time will come when the people will not
bother about an earning/getting money being halal or haram, and no
particular effort shall be made so secure the money from rightful
and valid sources only, which is source of blessing the reward of
which has also been promised in the Hereafter. As against this
earning/getting money through haram and unlawful means is a curse,
the source of disgrace and perpetual loss not only in this world but
also in the Hereafter. May Allah save us from the clutches of this
ignominy. Amin.
PROBLEM:-
To earn by honest labour is compulsory (Farz) on a Muslim the amount
of money as would meet the family expenses as are due upon him.
including himself besides fulfilling conditions in the field of
religious obligations. To earn more than the essential unavoidable
expenses that arise from time to time as also to save something is
welcome and appreciable from any points of view. If the parents are
poor and unable to maintain themselves, then the responsibility of
supporting and sustaining them through thick and thing of life would
also become the bounded duty of the earing son(s) so that they may
not feel themselves as destitute.
PROBLEM:-
Some people sit down in the Mosques and Khanqas, calling themselves
as Mutawakkils (Reliants on the Divinity for their sustenance etc)
all this is mere self deception and avoiding the responsibility of
earning and maintaining there life in a decent and praiseworthy
manner. This is the essence of Islamic teachings which aim at
guarding and enhancing the human dignity. To sit idle in places of
worship (Masjids) and Remembrance of Allah (Khanqahs) in the hope
that people would come and after them means of sustenances is the
total negation of pristine Islamic teaching, it is below the dignity
of persons who thoughtlessly indulge in such practice.
PROBLEM:- The best endeavour and the best
earning is the wealth and other material good that come by as the
spoils (mal-e-ghaminat) of Jehad or fighting in the way of Allah,
But taking part in the jehad should not be with a view to plunder or
get the money and the material of the opponents of Islam. After
Jehad come in that as means of earning are business and trade
agriculture (cultivation of land), industry and finally,
craftsmanship which obviously includes all kinds of manual and
intellectual labour, involving skill technical/mechanical know-how,
of which there is no limit.
PROBLEM:-
Spinning wheels (charkha) is the job of women folk, it is simply
unbecoming of men of any grade and standing, not even in the name of
any movement, as the movement of spinning wheel was very much in the
news and practical demonstration in the sub-continent.
PROBLEM:-
If the man who is known to be earning money through haram means ides
leaving his legacy for his inheritors, it is the moral and religious
obligation of these survivors to return the money which were
unlawfully usurped, to the concerned persons, and if they are
unknown, to give all the ill-gotten money in charity and sadaqah.
MAR BIL MARUF AND NIHI ANIL MUNKAR
(Commanding Good
and Forbidding Evil)
ALMIGHTY ALLAH says in the Holy
Quran, "There should be a group among you who should invited and
command men to Goodness and pro habit and forbid them from Evil.
These are the people who will attain prosperity". (Surah Ale Imran:
verse
).
In the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has also said, "If any one of you sees any
evil, he should check it by hand (force) if he is capable, or forbid
it through words of mouth and if he can not do so he should regard
it as evil in his heart, and this is the last grade of Eiman". He
has also said, "I wear in the Name of One in Whose Hand is my life,
either you (momins)shall command Good and forbid Evil or Allah's
Wrath will descend upon you, and if you will then pray (for Mercy),
your prayer shall not be answered (and accepted)".
He has also said that in a
community where evil doing is rampant and the people, in spite of
being capable to check it and yet do not do so, it is likely that
Allah will soon send upon them the painful punishment. He further
said, "Allah Shall not punish the entire community on account of the
few evil doers among them, but when evil (and corruption) becomes
common and the people, in spite of being capable, fail to check (and
suppress) the evil then the entire will suffer punishment from
Almighty Allah".
He has also said, "The best Jihad
is to tell the Truth (about tyranny and corruption) in the presence
(on the mount) of the tyrant suttam (kind, head of the government)".
PROBLEM:-
If a man intends doing an evil but checks himself and refrains form
committing it, there is no sin against him, on the contrary, he
shall be rewarded for his having shunned the evil.
And if the man is determined to
commit a sin and some how does do it, then for his determination he
will have to suffer.
PROBLEM:-
When some one seen doing single act, he should be persuaded politely
to refrain form it, if this is not enough, he should rebuked and
reprimanded with out resorting to abusing and filthy language.
Finally mild preventive force without causing physical hurt may be
used and his object of evil should be snatched from him.
PROBLEM:-
There are possibilities in the way of "Amr bil Maruf" (commanding
Good and "Nihi anil Munkar" (Forbidding Evil) and these should be
care fully sorted before taking any action in this behalf.
(1) When it is definite that the
people concerned will listen to persuasion and regain from
continuing the evil then `Arm bil Maruf' is obligatory and there
should be no negligence in this regard.
(2) If it is feared that evil
doers will not listen to the advice and instead, will react by
offensive criticism an devon abusing then it is blissful not to
proceed further
(3) If there is danger of counter
reaction namely abuse fro abuse, physical attack leading to general
disorder, then it is preferable not to invite trouble.
(4) If it is known that in case
they resort to physical violence but this man will hold patience and
tolerance in reply to their aggressive behaviour and continue his
mission till they relent and repent and finally give up the evil.
Then this man of strong faith and conviction shall be regarded and
rewarded as a MUJAHID.
(5) When it felt that even/though
they will not accept the invitation to shun the evil, but they will
also not resort to physical violence nor even abuse, then it is open
to the man to do what he deems fit. But preferable it is to tell the
people again and again to refrain from the evil and concentrate on
doing good.
PROBLEM:-
If it is apprehended that the evil doers will ultimately kill the
caller to the Goodness who sticks to his Mission in face of grave
dangers which unfortunately proved to be true, then the man will not
be blamed, because what he did was in the way of Allah and not for
his personal interest. He will be acclaimed as `Shaheed' and
rewarded as such in this world as well as in the Hereafter.
KNOWLEDGE - LEARNING AND TEACHING
By the word knowledge or "Ilm" is
not the sort of education which man has introduced in fields of his
experience and intellectual pursuit. The word knowledge in this
context is equated with the most common terminology "science" or
sciences under various exclusive and specialised branches. There too
are the brain work of human knowledge and experience though these
sciences are also based on natural phenomenal working in the scheme
of the Universe. But since the depth and insight of human Vision and
Experience are limited and confined with the working or behaviour of
human intellect they are, by and large, purely mundane or transient
subject to development and decay, they can not be relied upon for
the "Eternal" Benefit of mankind which may endure in the pursuit of
Eternal Peace and tranquility both in this world and the "One To
Follow" the Hereafter.
In the latter group of knowledge
with which we are concerned is the exposition of Divine secrets
which we can not achieve otherwise than the Holy Quran and the
sunnah or the Ahadees of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace
be upon him). On these Divine ordained knowledge depends the success
and Prosperity in the world as the Deliverance in the Hereafter. The
Holy Quran has divided the human species into two branches, namely
(1) those who know and (2) those who do not know. It is said,
(O Prophet! are those who have
knowledge and those who ahve no knowledge equal? Surely those learn
and remember who are men of wisdom. Many qualities and attributes of
Ilm and knowledge have also been mentioned in may Ahadees of the
Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him). Some of these
Ahadees are presented below,
Whom so ever Almighty Allah wishes
prosperity and success, He bestows Understanding (and comprehension)
of Deen on him, I distribute (and award) what Allah grants (among
the chosen member of mankind).
He said, "The superior of a man
with knowledge over a devotee in worship is like the superiority
which I possess over you (people)."
He said, "Allah and His Angels and
all creatures inhabiting the heavens and the earth (The Universe),
even an ant in her clay hole and the fish (in the expose of sea
water) pray for the prosperity (in all respects) of those who impart
useful knowledge to people."
He said, "A learned scholars of
Deen possesses grater power than what one thousand (formal)
worshipers exert on the devil (satan)."
He said, "A acquisition of
knowledge is binding upon every muslim man and woman."
He said, "One who keeps (impart)
knowledge to a worthless fellow is like the man who adorn a swine
with a garland knitted jewels and pearls".
He said, "One who leaves home and
goes in search of knowledge is in the Path of Allah till he returns
home."
Hazrat Ibn Abbas (may Allah be
please with him) has said, "To receive or impart knowledge (even)
for an hour at night is far more blissful that doing so for the
whole night."
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, "The Ins (used by) of a learned
scholar shall be weighed with the blood of a martyrs and will have
dominance over it."
The similitude of the learned
scholars (of Deen) is that of the stars in the sky which guided the
wayfarers in the land (dark forests etc) and in the vast expanse of
the oceans (where the direction are very difficult to determine
without the aid of scientific appliances).
He said, " One who seeks knowledge
and gets it he is twice blessed compared to the man who does not
succeed in acquiring the desire knowledge and even then he is
rewarded with one onward for his endeavours.
PROBLEM:-
A young man with knowledge has preponderance over an aged but
illiterate man and as such he should not be given less respect and
recognition than that given to illiterate old man, "The right of a
learned man over his un educated compatriot is the same as a teacher
over his student(s). If the learned man leaves his seat temporarily
the uneducated man has no right to occupy his seat (whatever his
position other wise in the society).
PROBLEM:-
The search and acquisition of knowledge with sincere and honest
intentions is better than every kind of good deed, because the
blessings of the knowledge benefit all and sundry, where as the
benefits of good deed are restricted the man concerned only.
PROBLEM:-
The teacher and the taught (student) should pay due regard to things
used on acquiring knowledge, specially books manuscripts, monogram
etc. Books should not be kept on the ground (earth) nor should the
carried to places of answering calls of nature (lavatory, w.e. etc).
Books should be handled with cleaned washed hands, preferably after
coming out from private places.
PROBLEM:-
Due respects should be paid to the teacher. If any thing wrongs to
notice it should not be broadcast, that would lower the value of the
teaches. To err is human and every one is liable to commit mistake
some time or the other. This should be kept fresh in mind.
HALAL AND HARAM ANIMALS
It is difficult to describe the
name and qualities of the animals which are halal or haram as a
class or category or in terms of their habitat and habits. However
some specific qualitier or nature can be stated here on account of
which the defaults can be determined.
PROBLEM:- Animals with sharp nail like teeth
with which they catch or kill their prey are as rule haram, for
example, tiger, lion, jackal, fox, dog,
, etc. However camel who has
also teeth of this type is not haram because it does not hunt any
animal (strangely camel can be described as a grazing animal!).
PROBLEM:-
Birds which hunt their prey with sharp laws are also haram, for
example hawk, eagle, nultures kite, etc. Animals living underneath
clay/earth or in crevices are also haram, eg. rat, lizard,
chameleon, snake, scorpion, crocodile, etc. Insect like lice, bug,
fly, frog.
PROBLEM:-
Domestic donkey and mule are haram wild donkey, is halal. About
horse opinions differ. Some regard horse as an appliance of
war/fight in jehad and opine that it race should not be subject to
extinction. However, we read in Islamic history that Arabs often
kill and roast their pet horse to feed emergency guests of caulk in
their society.
PROBLEM:- Cow, buffalo sheep, goat, deer,
antelope, ,
stag,
and rabbit are halal.
PROBLEM:- Partridge, quail, hen, pigeon,
magpie, dove, ducks of all varieties, crane, ,
, etc are halal.
PROBLEM:- Tortoise (land or water) crow are
haram which
resembles crow is halal.
PROBLEM:-
Among the sea creatures only fish is halal, but the fish which dies
in the water and turns the other way is haram. Locust is also halal.
Fish and locust without slaughtering are halal. There is a Hadees
saying two dead corpse are halal namely fish and locust.
PROBLEM:-
Fish dying on account of hot or cold water, in the net, contaminated
water, kept in the ditch or narrow earthen pot (suffocation), in all
these conditions which cause death, the fishes are halal.
PROBLEM:-
About shrimp or prawn it is not clear whether it is halal or haram,
some do not regard it is a variety of fish. There fore they prefer
to avoid it.
PROBLEM:- Small fishes when fried or roasted
without slitting the stomach are halal.
PROBLEM:-
Cow, hen if it starts eating rotten bad smell in stuff which get
into their stomach with the result that they emit bad smell should
be tied down and kept away from eating rotten stinking stuff for
some days and when they become free from bad smell, they can be
eaten.
PROBLEM:-
An uncastrated goat also smell stink because it drink urine. It
flesh also stinks and should therefore be not eaten. usually these
stinking goats are employed to copulate with she goat and produce
your ones.
PROBLEM:-
While being slaughtered if the naimal runs away gets drowned and
dies or dies in that condition for some other reason, it is halal as
the cause of death is slaughtering and not drowning on falling.
PROBLEM:-
A piece of flesh cut off from the body of the animal for example the
fat from the chakki of lamp or lump of a camel is haram by itself.
However if the animal is slaughtered then the animal as well as it
piece of flesh both are halal.
PROBLEM:-
When an arrow is host at an naimal and a piece of flesh flies off
its, then if the animal survives in spite of piece of flesh torn of
its body, then it is haram. If the head falls off and the naimal is
slaughtered, then the animal as also its head can be eaten as halal.
PROBLEM:-
IF a piece of cut off from the fish, this piece is halal and if the
fish dies in the water on account of this slicing off its body, the
fish is also halal.
PROBLEM:-
The animal of which the flesh is not eaten, if it be slaughtered
according to shariat rites, then its flesh fat and skin get purified
except the swine whose every part un unclean (najis). If the fat etc
of such animal is intended to be used externally, then it is better
to slaughter the animal because in that condition its use will not
render the clothes etc as dirty or impure.
RACING AND OTHER FESTIVAL ACTIVITIES
PROBLEM:-
On the occasions of Eids, wedding ceremonies and other festivals,
playing on (duffs) tambourines is permissible, provided the
instrument is off simple make, without any additional ornaments
which produce additional musical sounds of lyrical notes.
PROBLEM:-
Blowing bytes to awaken the people during Ramzan nights or as an
alarm to warn and inform general public on the arrival of any
dignitary or occasions is also permissible, on this analogy the
sounding of sirens (by the government) and trumpets on such like
moments is also valid because this is not associated with any
extravaganza display of riches or uncontrolled loud tonal music etc.
The sounding of buzzers in big workshops and factories to inform the
people of the beginning lunch interval or closure of working hours
is also permissible, as it meant for the convenience of the worker
and people at large.
PROBLEM:- Playing dice games such as chess,
chaser and gajicah (local names of games) played by men in paris on
the boards / thick painted clothes with dice or dots and other games
are included in mirthful preoccupation and as such are forbidden.
According to Hadees Sharif only three kinds of playful activities.
(1) with one's
wife (2) Horse-riding and (3) Orchery.
PROBLEM:-
Dancing, clapping, guitar (also sitar) harmonium, drum and musical
instrument are forbidden to be played.
PROBLEM:- Now a day mehfils of Qawwali are
held in which modern musical instruments are played along with the
singing of songs, solo or in chorus. If these sitting are kept
within reasonable limits without undue liberty of playing music with
instrument, then there can be no objection to it. But when the
audience willfully and with intentions of pure sentimental enjoyment
indulge in clapping, singing and dancing in chorus and in company,
then the very purpose and sanctity of these soul purifying and
emotion, inspiring function/mehfils are killed and the occasions
become sources of Displeasure of Allah and defiance of the
commandment enunciated in the Ahadees of the Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace be upon him). These to unbridled activities by
unscrupulous people are what they call as HAAL (Ecstasy).
This is a pure misnomer, as such a thins is never permitted in the
commands of Shariat. No doubt in spiritual mehfils at times genuine
ecstatic turned over bearing spiritual demonstration do take
place in which high grade spiritual- leaders to driven to a state of
self unconsciousness and in those entranced moment they stand up and
engage themselves in slow rhythmic movements of their footsteps
accompanied by swaying of their body or circling round endlessly,
unless they themselves stop it too lie in a state of
semi-consciousness. This happens when some poetic lines sung the
Qawwali touch their subline spiritual chords and they are
spiritually inspired and uplifted resulting in their afore said
ecstatic semi-conscious behaviour which throws it own spiritual
charms on the spell hound listener and spectators. Obviously there
is a world of different between the two sets of demonstration by
genuinely inspired spiritual leaders and those pseudo "Hall" (
) players whose
simple aim is to defame and discredit these spiritual gatherings and
denounce the spiritual leaders.
PROBLEM:-
To rear and trained pigeons is also becoming wide spread among the
group of idlers and wasters of money in this gainless practice. It
does no good to the pigeons either, on the contrary it is binding
the free fliers in the serve atmospheres of he sky. More over the
trainer and his accomplices climb the roofs or the house tops to
train and supervise the movement of these bonded labouring pigeons !
This causes resentment among the veil observing families living
around. Their privacy is disturbed as the roof climbers do not
restrict themselves in pigeon fly, but among them so unscrupulous
even do not feel ashamed in peeping a and prying in to house inmates
who are disturbed in their movement even with in the four walls of
their own hours and tenements!
PROBLEM:-
Similarly staging cock fights, bull fights, buffalo fights are also
forbidden. To witness and to participate in these animal fights
which result invariably in bleedings and at time deaths of the poors,
all are haram. Gambling and waging bets on these fights are among
the major sins which the people concerned must give up forth with
and seek forgiveness from Almighty Allah.
PROBLEM:-
Wrestling bouts if one participates in them with the healthy
inventive of developing muscular and physical vitality are not
forbidden. If the intentions of taking part in wrestling are widened
to serve the cause of Islam and to take part in Islamic Crusades
(Jihad) against the enemies of Islam and Musalman, the these
wrestlings shall become the source of Divine blessing which will
bring fortunes in the mundane as well as in the spiritual world. The
Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) also took part in
wrestling. Once a non believer wrestler `RUKANA' by name challenged
him that if the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
defeated him, he will embrace Islam where upon the Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) threw him three times on the
floor and Rukana accepted Islam.
PROBLEM:-
Doll making and doll playing among the girls are
permissible. Ummul Mumineen Hazrat Ayesha (May Allah be pleased with
her) often took part in playing will dolls with the girls though not
in the presence of but within the knowledge the Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) and he never objected to it.
PROBLEM:-
Competition or match (MUSABAQAT) to prove one's excellence and
efficiency in any healthy pursuit is permissible. The competitions
which are approved from the Shariat point of view should be such as
will intimately encourage participations in the crusades or Jihad
against the enemies of Islam. The most popular and useful in this
respect are the competitions in horse and camel racing, archery,
aiming at the target with bullets in any weapon swords manship
running in specified distances as a competition. Prizes in cash or
kind (such as in the modern age awarding cups, shields, trophies etc
by way of encouragement.
The idea behind all these
competitions should be in addition to building one's own standard it
physical fitness and winning awards, the promotion of the cause of
Islam and the betterment of humanity at large, luxuries and
indulgence in immoral activities which we witness in almost all the
social and cultural activities of the modern world are never
approved and admired in Islam.
PROBLEM:-
The prize or whatever is announced as a reward for the winner in any
competition (or match) is his halal and pure due and must be given
to him, but there is no legal right over it and the winner can not
claim it in any court of law. Now a days the fields and number of
competitions have increased beyond count. But the fundamental
principle under each and every competition should be healthy
endeavour to secure excellence and superiority of one competitor
over the over or of one team against the other team in a collective
manner. Whatever is held good and admirable for an individual is
also good and admirable for the team or the combined group of
competitors. The aim and object in every competition should be
healthy and moral rivalry between the participants in the game or
sport . open brazen display of immorality and ethical in decency
should be avoided and kept at bay in any competition whatever it s
nature, physical, cultural, intellectual, educational and social
reform etc.
CURE AND OMEN INCLUDING SPELL, ENCHANTMENT
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said that disease and cure both are from
Allah. He has provided medicine for every disease, but haram means
of treatment or cure must be avoided. The Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace by upon him) has also advised not to force or compel
the patient to take the medicine as Allah feeds (provides cure for)
the patient. He has also said that when the patient expresses
desires for something (to eat) it should be given to him, however,
the nature of the desire should be kept in view. If the desire is
genuine then only it should be fulfilled. The patient should refrain
from demanding and eating anything which under medical opinion are
not useful during sickness. This point been illustrated by the
following Hadees. Hazrat Umme Munzir has said that one day the Holy
Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) came to my home
alongwith Hazrat Ali (May Allah brighten his visage) who was feeling
weakness on account of his recent illness. In the courtyard of the
house, bunches of dates were hanging. The Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace be upon him) took and ate few dates from the bunch.
Hazrat Ali also desired to eat them , but the Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace upon him) checked him and said You are (suffering
from) weak (ness). Later Umme Munzir brought the food cooked with
barley and sugar beat. The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him) said to Hazrat Ali to eat of it, it is useful for you.
From this Hadees it is clear that
a patient should be given the food which is good for him and not all
that be desires.Some Ahadees of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace be upon him),
"Incantation (jhar phoonk) is
nothing but it is better than evil eye (nazar-e-bad) and stinging of
poisonous insect.
The evil eye should be cured
through incantation. The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him) has said jhar phoonk (incantation) can be used (as or
cure) if it is free from shirk (associating any diety or power with
Allah).
He has said contagion is nothing
nor is there any disease contagious by itself. Similarly bed-omen
and tamah are also nothing nor the month of safar contains ill
effects. Run (keep off) from the leper as you run from the lion (out
of fear).
It is reported that once a
behaviour came to the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon
him) and asked, How is it O Prophet Allah! that or camel in the
desert remains as clear and tidy as a dear, but a camel suffering
from seabies (itch) it make the neat camel also seabies (or taken by
itching). The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
asked the bedouin as to who struck the diseased camel as such. The
idea is that as the first camel was overtaken by the disease, was
the other camel offer (due to contamination. The disease in itself
is not contagious but the affected person (patient) is. Similarly
the advice for keeping off the leper is to remove the cause of
contagion. IF some others gets the disease he will blame other
disease person, where as
the fact that it is
the disease that strikes the person He has said there is nothing
like bad omen, where as Omen is a good thing. On being asked what is
omen, he said, (By omen is meant) the auspicious (blissful) words
which a person hears while going any where or beginning a new work.
This is known as Ful-eHasan (good Omen).
He has said, To take omen from
bird is shirk. (He repeated these words thrice) whosoever is from
amongst us, he must reply upon Allah and on to
his job (errand
mission).
He said, Omen is a good thing and
he should discard any (and every) thing of and omen. he must
continue going on his mission even if a bad omen comes in his way.
whenever he comes across a thing which undesirable, he should come
back but proceed on his mission. On confronting an evil omen, he
should recite,
(O Allah! none brings good things
but You i.e. with Your (permission-power) and none removes evil but
You i.e. with Your permission. There is nothing to encompass and
there is no Power except Almighty Allah.)
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, Plague is a sign of Allah
punishment, with which Allah inflicts some of His servants. When you
hear about plague at any place and when you go there where is the
plague is do not run away from there.
He also said, Plague is a
calamity, ALLAH descends it on whosoever desires ALLAH has made
plague a source of Blessing for the Believers. The place where
plague has broken out, if a person (believer!) stay there with
patience and forbearance and fortitudes with the hope of Mercy from
Allah believing and having full Faith that whatever Allah has
written
will happen for him is the
reward of a Martyr (Shaheed).
PROBLEM:-
Taking medicine for cure of the disease is necessary and
permissible, with a belief that ALLAH will grant him recovery (and
not the medicine) But if he thinks that the medicine will cure him,
then this unjust (and sign of weakness of Faith).
PROBLEM:-
To use any part (organ) of human body by way of medicine is haram.
Dry bones without any tinge of dampness of slaughtered animals can
be sued as medicine, but every part of the swine including its bones
and hair is absolutely haram even for medicine. If the bones of any
animal are to be sued as unedible medicine, then the animal should
be a halal one. The bones of a dead animal can not be used as
medicine.
PROBLEM:-
The use of haram things or medicines is haram. According to Hadees
there is no cure which endowed by Allah in things which are haram.
Some books on medicine contain statements regarding the qualities of
things of cure for certain diseases. If it is confirmed form such
books that if some things which are known as medicine. However even
in these things it is to be kept in mind that the cure (shifa) is
not in that thing itself but is in the use in certain given
circumstances, which may or may not prove effective. This bears
analogy with haram things which are permitted to be used to save the
life of a dying man. Foreign medicines which contain alcohol (liquour)
should never be use.
PROBLEM:-
If a man dies for not using any medicine can not be regarded a
sinner. This means that seeking treatment through medicine is not
obligatory. However is case o extreme hunger and thirst when food
and drink is available, if amn dies without using them he will be
considered sinner.
PROBLEM:- Use of liquor (alcohol) even for
external or oral treatment is forbidden eg. for treating a wound on
which liquor applied, or use of wine (brandy etc) for providing
relief to infect and
small children is also forbidden and the person using liquor in this
way will be taken as sinner.
PROBLEM:-
Enema can be given as a medicine provided the compound of medicines
or the medicine itself does not contain anything haram, such as
liquor (wine, alcohol).
PROBLEM:-
Forced abortion is absolutely forbidden except in extreme
circumstances in which the life of the expectant mother or its child
or both are in grave danger. Even other wise abortion of a child
with less than one hundreds and twenty day's pregnancy is not
permissible.
GOOD MORAL CONDUCT
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, "Nothing better has been endowed to
mankind them good moral character, and the man most perfect in
Eimaan is one who bear excellent moral character, and good among you
are those whose conduct is good". He has also said, " I have been
sent (as a Prophet) to raise moral conduct to perfection (which
means achieving accomplishment in moral conduct is the Mission of
the Apostle of Allah).
PROBLEM:-
It is reported in the Hadees suppresses one who anger despite having
power to express it on his opponent, on the Day of Judgement will
call him in form of all the people and tell him to go in any group
of Paradise Hoors (and select the Paradise Virgin as a reward for
suppressing his anger). In another Hadees it is said, " Allah is
Merciful and kind and loves kindness and affection. He lay stress on
kindness and not on severity and harshness.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said any one who is denied the traits of
leniency and tolerance is denied of the virtue of Goodness.
He has also said, Shyness or (as a
virtue) consists in Eiman and Eiman is in the Paradise and talking
absurd is oppression (and injustice) the abode of this is in he'll.
He also said, Eimaan and shyness
are twins, when one is removed the other too disappears. It is
reported one man telling about shyness (haya) and reprimanding him
why he was so much observing Haya. One hearing this the Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) commanded to leave him alone
(and not give him any advice), Haya (shyness as virtue) is in
Paradise.
ADOPTING COMPANY OF THE GOOD PEOPLE AND AVOIDING
EVIL DOERS
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said `Adopt company of none but of men of
Eiman'. He also said, `Sit among the elders and learn things from
the religious scholars (Ulema). The good friend is one who reminds
remembrance of Allah when you forget and helps you when remember
Him. The good companion in one whose visage revives you remembrance
of Allah and his talks encourage you for doing goods and his
activities remind you of the Day of Judgement. He said, `The example
of a good and bad
companion is a kin to a
musk seller and the furnace bellower respectively. The former either
will you something or the good smell will reach you (in his
present), while the latter will either burn your clothes or the bad
smell of the smoke will cause you extreme trouble.'
He also said, `Have no company
with the person who does not recognize your worth, at least as much
as you have regard for him, who expects fulfillment of his rights
from you while he ignores his duty towards you.
Hazrat Umar (May Allah be pleased
with him) has said, `do not indulge in things which are of no
benefit to you, Keep off from your enemy and keep a distance from
the friend who is also an ameen (trustee, keeper of things as a
trust, amanat) no one can equal an ameen, who fears Allah most. Do
not keep company with an unchaste and evil does having no regard for
moral virtues, he will teach you his own evil doing and moral
laxity, do not open your secrets before him, and consult your
affairs only with those (trust worthy people) who fear Allah.
Hazrat Ali (May Allah brighten hi
visage) has said, `do not keep company with an evil charactered man
(Fajir), he will try to induce you (as something bright) with his
behaviour and would very much like to soil You with his doings and
present his worst deeds as best ones. His visits to you and to your
kins is a matter of shame and grave fault. Also do no friendship
with fools and crazy, he will cause you trouble and will not bring
any benefit to you even if he tries to do so, his silence is better
that speech, and distance better than nearness, death better than
life, also do not keep company with liars, it will benefit you, he
will carry your secrets to others and bring those of others to you.
If you tell the truth he will stick to falsehood.
FRIENDSHIP AND ENMITY FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said that in respect of Eiman the
strongest Bond with Allah is Friendship with Him, and the emotional
links of love and Enmity should be with Allah. One day the Holy
Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) asked his companion if
they knew what deed is most appreciated by Allah. Some one said,
Namaz (prayers) Fasting and Zakat and some others companion said, `JIhad'
(cursade in the way of Allah). The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace upon him) replied the best deed for the Pleasure of Allah is
to entertain Friendship and Enmity of the sake of Allah. He said
that when some one loved some one else for the sake of Allah, he
upheld and elevated the Honour and dignity of Allah. He also said
"Persons who expresses love for Allah shall be honoured by having
been seated in the Chairs of Ruby round about the Arsh."
He also said, Allah says Those who
love one another fro My sake and Sit together, meet one another and
spend money (for My sake) On Me their Love has become due." One man
siad, O Prophet of Allah! what about the person who loves certain
community but has not met them, nor rendered deeds as noble as
their? The Holy Prophet (Allah grace and peace be upon him) replied,
"Man's destiny is linked with those whom he loves."
For this Hadees it is evident that
the company of noble makes a man noble and his destiny shall be like
and with them. Likewise the company of evil doers will in still evil
in his thoughts and behaviour and his destiny will be like theirs.
One day a companion enquired from
the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) as to when
the Day of Judgment will occur. He asked the companion, "What
preparations have you made for that Day?" The companion meekly and
respectfully replied, "None! O Prophet of Allah! I only know that I
Love Allah and His Prophet. Thereupon the Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace be upon him) affectionately reassured him that the
ultimate destiny of his will be with those whom he loved. Hazrat who
narrated the episode said that the happiness and glad things brought
to him (and the Musalman) was the greatest after the acceptance of
Islam.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) also said, `Man remains in the Deen of the
person with who he has befriended. It must therefore he observed
what kind of man is whom he makes his friend."
He further said, ` Once Allah sent
a revelation (Wahi) to an Apostle asking him to tell the Devotee of
his community that his real comfort and solace o of person lay in
the piety and the uninvolvement in the mundane (worldly) affairs,
and his honour is through the constancy of his regard towards Allah
the Lord Creator. He was asked if he had fulfilled his obligation
"by his deeds," the man would ask, " What deed, my Lord?" The Divine
reply will be " was your friendship and Enmity with any one for My
sake in the world?"
He also said that when a man
desires to make friendship with any one, he should first ask his and
his father's name and the tribe (community or fraternity) he
belongs. This will make the friendship stronger and more enduring.
He has also said that, If a person Loves some one the latter should
be informed of this. He further to keep the friendship up to
a reasonable limit, because it is not improbable that some day
he might turn into an enemy. Similarly the enmity should also
limited, it is quite possible that some day he may become his
friend.
TELLING LID
Telling Lie is such a despicable
habit that it is universally cursed and there is not a single
religion in the world, past and present which has not condemned lie
or falsehood. Islam has warned severally against telling lie and
many verses of the Holy Quran have also denounce and cursed this
evil of human character. There is clear condemnation, "Curse of
Allah on the falsehood mongers and liars. Many Hadees also contain
strictures and condemnation upon the liars, besides denouncing
falsehood as a human trait. The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace be upon him) has said, "When a person tells lie, the angels
goes a mile away on account of its bad smell." He has also said, "A
momin is not completer in Eimaan unless he gives up telling lie even
in frivolous joke and gossips, and gives quarreling even thought he
may be right (and might win in the end).
He also said, "A man speaks in a
light hearted manner merely to please the people and make them laugh
and he does not realize that by doing that he is falling so deep in
the hell that the measure of depth is more than the distance between
the earth and the sky. And the faltering that occurs through he slip
of the tongue is far more greater than that occurs through false
steps. Hazrat Abdullah bin Aamir narrated that one day the Holy
Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) had come to visit our
family. My mother called me indicating that she would give me
something. The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
asked what she wanted to give. She replied I will give him dates.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) said if you
did not give him anything a lie would have been recorded against
your name.
He has also said, Falsehood
blackens the face of the lier and back biting is the punishment of
the grave.
PROBLEM:-
On three occasions telling a lie is permitted and there is no
punishment for this, (1) in the midst of fight because to deceive
the enemy in the war is permissible. Similarly when fearing
oppression at the hands of a tyrant a lie may be told to word off
the cruelty. (2) To effect peace between two fighting Muslims if a
lie can patch up the difference it can be used.(3) To please the
wife a lie may be used as a measure of appeasement.
PROBLEM:- Tauria (
), we describe it as a
conversational device whereby we use a word or phrase not exactly in
the literal sense or dictionary meaning but some thing opposite or
implied. This is with view to avoid any untoward or unwanted
situation which the ordinary meaning of to spoken word would have
created. This is permissible but only in rare occasions, because
unless the real intentions are made clear, the wrong and offended
sense would have continued to embarrass the situation. Tauria is
very near to telling a lie unless it is intended to avert a
difficult situation.
PROBLEM:-
IF the desired aim can be secured by telling the truth as well as a
lie, it is better to tell the truth and avoid the lie, which (lie)in
itself is haram. however in certain cases telling lie is permissible
rather morally necessary. For example if a tyrant is determined to
kill an innocent person purely for personal unjustifiable reason. If
he takes refuge in some body's house which no one except the house
owner knows. IF the tyrant or any one on his behalf wants to know
the whereabouts of the wanted amn. The house owner can safely plead
ignorance and thus save the life of the innocent man. The example
can be multiple, but the intentions behind each "false he" should be
of some benefit (lawful and valid).
PROBLEM:-
Some one commits an indecent and immoral deed which none but he
knows. Now if some one asks about it, he can deny because if he
discloses the fact this will be another guilt, especially the
inquirer has no authority to do anything with the moral guide in
question. Similarly, the secret of one muslim brother must not be
told to unconcerned persons.
PROBLEM:-
If telling the truth leads to disturbance or violence, then it is
permissible to tell the lie because peace and tranquility is more
precious than to disturb it merely for the sake of an ordinary
truth. If by telling the lie disturbance or violence is likely to
erupt then the lie is absolutely haram. In case of doubt between
truth and falsehood, the truth may be told if it will bring good,
otherwise silence is preferable.
PROBLEM:-
Usual exaggeration is friendly conversation can not be taken as lie.
For example to say "I have thousand or hundreds of time not to do
such and such a thing but you did not listen." Here the number
simply signifies plurality of time, but not actual counting thereof.
PROBLEM:-
Telling the implied truth for the sake of pun or fun in a manner
which is opposite the truth is also permissible. For example No old
woman shall go in the Paradise ( because there is no sense of old
age in the Paradise where every one shall eternally young)."
CHECKING THE TONGUE FROM AND DESISTING
FROM ABUSING AND BACK BITING ETC.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said that the best thing which will
enable Men to enter the paradise if TAQWA (fear of Allah and
excellence of moral character), and the worst thing which plunge men
in the hell are two things having cavity namely the mount and the
shame of the woman.
Some more sacred saying of the
Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) are summarized
below,
He said, "One who keep silence (as
moral behaviour) attains deliverance."
The good of man lies in discarding
thing which are of no use, restraining tongue, heart and other
organs from ungainly activities.
Hazrat Abu Zar Ghafari says, I
begged the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) to
advise me of something useful. He said, I advise you to adopt TAQWA,
It will set right affair of yours. (Note: Here follows a series of
Questions and answers that took place between the Companion Hazrat
Abu Zar Ghafari and the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him). After every answer given to him a Hazrat Ghafari begged
one more advice. The answer given by the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) contain the following points of advice in
that order.
"Make binding upon yourself the
Recitation of the Holy Quran and the Remembrance of Allah. This will
cause you remembrance in the heavens and there shall be Nur (Divine
light) for you on the earth."
"Keeping quiet most of the time
should be made binding on yourself, this will word off satan and you
will get support / assistance in your religious activities."
"Avoid laughing too much this
causes death of the heart and removes the nur of the visage."
"Speak the Truth even though it
may be better."
"Do not fear the amn who talks
ills of Allah."
"The thing which should keep you
away from people should be in you own knowledge. In other word your
weaknesses and defects should be clear to you so that you may word
them off and then you shall not spy into other men's weaknesses."
"Do not call bad names and abuse
the air (wind). When you find it unpleasant, seek Good form Allah as
He has endowed it with and seek refuge of Allah from the Evil it
carries by the command of Allah."
It is reported that once a rider
cursed the animal of his riding. The Prophet of Allah, on hearing
this, rebuked the man and ordered him to alight, from the man as he
will non like the accursed animal accompany the travelers. He also
forbade cursing one's children and upon once your own self, lest it
be the hour of the acceptance of the prayer.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said one who blames and charges of moral
indecency and profligacy
and these accusations
are not in the man concerned then all these charges and their
consequences will recoil upon the accuser.
He also said, If two men abuse one
another, then consequences and requitals of all the abuses exchanged
in between then will lie upon the person who started abusing first
so long the offended person does not exceed the limit of abuses
hurled against him. He further said, "Says Almighty Allah the son of
Adam (man) causes Me injury he abuses the Time (Dahr or Zamana). I
am The Dahr All
affairs are in MY HAND, I
cause alternation in Day and Night". In other words ill of Time and
abusing it. amounts to criticism Almighty Allah and all that happens
and occurs in the world is at the command of Almighty Allah.
He said. When a man says all men
have perished then the man who suffers most is the men himself so
says so. The man who regards all others as deserving of it, as he is
himself the greatest sinner.
He also said, The worst of all men
you will find on the Day of Judgement is the amn who is TWO FACES,
(indulging in duplicity) a hypocrite, changing stand and stance
every now and the or saying opposite things at one and at the some
time.
Hazrat Huzaifa says he heard the
Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) say the backbiter
shall not be admitted in the Paradise.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has siad, The virtuous servants of Allah are
those who very sight (appearance) reminds of Allah the Almighty, and
the evil doers of His servants are those who indulge in back biting,
cause separation among friends and implicate innocent people in
crimes which they have not committed.
He said (speaking to companions)
Do you know what is back biting? (after a pause he said) Back biting
is (the evil) that you say in his absence about a brother of yours
if who he takes ill when it comes to his knowledge. Some one asked
suppose the evil is present in the man. He said This is what is
meant by back biting (telling things in absent) and if you speak of
a thing which is not present in him, then it is (bohtan) false
accusation or false imputation.
Ummul Momineen Hazrat Ayesha (May
Allah be pleased with her) says, it is enough for Ummul Momineen
Hazrat Safiah (May Allah be pleased with her) that she is so and so
( the idea was that she short statured!) there upon the Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) said to Hazrat Ayesha 'You
have siad such a thing that if it is dropped into an ocean, it (the
said word) will dominate over (engulf) the ocean. To utter about the
natural thing 9in absence) which is not liked by the other person is
what the Quarn says as Bohtan (insinuated utterance), when there is
no occasion to do so.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has siad. Ghibat (false accusation) is worse
than adultery (fornication). The companions asked why it is so . He
who commits adultery later seek and receives forgiveness from Allah,
but there is no forgiveness for Ghibat (False accusation) unless the
person concerned also forgives the accuser.
He has also said, If a man secures
food by insinuating against his Muslim brother, Allah will force
that much amount from the Hell. The some things as said about the
clothing received for ghibat in the world and the clothing forced on
the accuser on the Day of Judgment.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has severely reprimanded and warned the
accusation mongers in these shocking words O You people who profess
Eimaan Islam by tongue and Eiman has not entered you, hearts do not
indulge in false accusation (Ghibat) of Muslims and don't try into
their private personal affairs of (innocent) Muslim, Allah will also
their private affairs pried onto and whosoever affairs are thus
pried into by Allah. He inflict utter disgrace on him, even if he
(hiding) in his own home.
He has also said In the Night of
Ascension I passed by the people whose nails sure of copper with
which they scratched their mouths and chests. On enquiry, Angel
Jibrail said, these are the people who ate the human flesh and used
to dishonour them.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said that, at places where the honour of
Muslim is antraged and polluted. If any one did not help the Muslim
victim but continued watching the incident and failed to check this
disgrace, then Allah also will not help him at the place where he
would desire to be helped. And the man who helps the muslim brother
at the pace where he is being dishonoured Allah will help him at the
place of his choice when he needs Divine.
He said, A Momin is the mirror of
another Momin and the Momin is the brother of another Momin, he
should try to save the things of his brother (Momin) form being
destroyed and render him help in his absence. He said, If a man sees
a thing which should ordinarily he kept hidden and he hides it, it
is as if he brought a dead man to life.
He said, If a man kills a man on
account of the crime or misdeed for which he has already sought
forgiveness from Allah, then the killer would himself die after
being involved in that very misdeed or crime.
He further said, Do not express
joy over the calamity or misfortune of another man. Otherwise Allah
will show mercy on him and involve you in that calamity.
PROBLEM:-
Ghibat (back biting) means to speak certain weakness of a man with
intentions to malign him which he does not like to he told. And if
the weakness or defect is not found in the man, then it Bohtan
(false accusation). The Holy Quran says
(Let none back bite the other.
Will you like to eat the flesh of your dead brother? (No) you would
fell contemptuous.)
The habit of backbiting has also
been condemned in many Ahadees of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) which we have mentioned earlier.
PROBLEM:-
A Musalman is seen offering prayer and keeping fasts regular, but at
his hands and tongue other Muslim brothers are in trouble. To
disclose and mention these troublesome feature to others will not be
taken as Ghibat (back biting) as the intention behind this
disclosure is warn others brother to beware of this troublesome
trails of that so called religious man. There is a saying in the
Hadees, do you fear a wicked man? Speak out the harmful activities
of such a man, so that people may protect themselves from his
mischief.
PROBLEM:-
If the case of the aforesaid men is brought to the notice of the
state authorities for taking necessary action against him it is
justified and it will not be taken as back biting (Ghibat). On the
contrary, it is necessary to check the mischievous activities of
such a wicked man, so that people may be spared of their aftermath
and the peace and tranquility of the state may also not be
disturbed. Any advice if so called tolerance, by pseudo reformers or
religionists must no be heeded.
PROBLEM:-
Jurist Abul Lias has said 'Ghibat (back biting) is of four kinds,
(1) Kufr (denial of Allah and
Islam). Suppose a man is openly committing ghibat and when he is
asked to desist from this, he insists that he is doing the right
thing. In other word he is showing a haram thing as halal which is
Kufr.
(2) Hypocrisy. The man is
criticizing and doing ghibat in front of the amn whom he knows but
does not name him, thus showing himself a virtuous man. This is
Ghibat of Nifaq (hypocrisy).
(3) Sinful act when Ghibat is
committed deliberately knowing that Ghibat is haram and yet he does
not desists.
(4) Mubah permissible with good
intentions of telling irreligious and misleading affairs of some
precaution in the name of religion and reform. Though it is ghibat a
sense, but with good and beneficial purposes it is permissible (Mubah)
when no personal interest is involved.
PROBLEM:-
Telling people about the open and deliberate misdeeds of a man is
not Ghibat, but telling things of the same man which are not known
is ghibat. There is a Hadees saying, One who removes the veil of
shame from his face, to speak about him in his absence is NOT GHIBAT.
PROBLEM:-
On seeking opinion about a man the latter weakness must not remain
untold. It may be injurious to the opinion seeker. According to a
hadees, the man from whom opinion is sought is Ameen (trust holder).
His not disclosing the weakness of the concerned amn is 'MISTRUST' (Khyanat).
PROBLEM:-
Like committing Ghibat by tongue, it may also committed through
gestures by movements of head, hands, eyes and eye brows, other
physical action indicating some else weakness or defects (especially
natural one). In short Ghibat in any shape or form is ghibat. It is
reported that once Hazrat Ayesha (May Allah be pleased with her)
indicated by gestures about a woman who had just left, that she is
short statured (not agreeably tall as a woman). The Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) warned her that she committed
Ghibat.
PROBLEM:-
Imitating some one movements of naturals or physical defects is a
ghibat of a more sinister quality than telling by tongue.
PROBLEM:-
Like the ghibat of a living man the ghibat of a deceased Muslim when
the defects are not of a nature, the description of which is not
ghibat. Likewise the ghibat of a Zimmi Kafir (under protection of
Islamic state) is also not permissible because he enjoys the same
rights as a muslim. However telling the evils / misdeeds of a kafir
in war (Harbi) is not ghibat.
PROBLEM:-
Telling evils/misdeed on the face of the amn concerned, through not
ghibat in the literal sense, it is more dangerous than that because
he might he enraged to retaliate and cause more harm than otherwise
he should not have caused if his weakness was told in his absence.
The philosophy behind checking ghibat is to prevent harm to the
muslims of the society, but telling defects on the face would almost
certainly prove injurious because in the event of ghibat the news of
his misdeed might or might not have reached him. This is surely an
act of greater haram than in case of ghibat.
PROBLEM:-
The defects which are generally narrated by way of ghibat are of
various natures. Physically defects or deformities, for example,
blindness, being one-eyed, lame, crippled, flat nosed etc.
So called or assumed drawbacks of
profession, race, family lineage etc. this is very common in the
sub-continent where high brow society people call names to the
professions or avocations of people belonging to lower strata. A
part form these established grounds of ghibats in our society there
are various avenues of strictures, satire, taunts etc. relating to
habits of walking and talking, dresses and other smaller but more
common modes of behaviour a appearance. These are all forms of
ghibats, these are more tragic because the poor ordinary men and
woman. Listening to ghibat is as sinful as it is telling ghibat.
According to a hadees, any one who protect the honour of another
coming form ghibat, it is due to the Mercy and grace of Allah to
protect him from the Fire of He'll.
PROBLEM:-
The man against who some one commits ghibat should be approached to
seek his pardon by the man committing ghibat, if the former comes to
know about the misconduct of the latter. That way alone he can be
exonerated. If the victim of ghibat remains unaware, the man
committing ghibat should at least express regret and repentance,
that would be enough.
PROBLEM:-
Seeking personal pardon also demand that this time of good qualities
of the offended person should also narrated on his face to assuage
his feeling and neutralize the harm done to him. If still the man is
not satisfied, then the man seeking pardon will be exonerated of his
moral guild and there shall be no accountability for the some of the
Day of Judgement.
PROBLEM:-
According to Imam Ghizali if the victim of ghibat dies or disappears
and there remains no chance of seeking pardon, then in order to
reduce and offset the seriousness of his misconduct (ghibat) he
should devote more time in doing deeds of goodness, remembrance of
Allah and other acts of charity and benevolence so that his
redeeming acts out weigh his misdeed on the Day of Judgement.
PROBLEM:- Praising some one on his face
simply to please him or securing his own admiration is forbidden.
Similarly praising a person in absention with intentions that when
this praise would reach him he will be please is also equally
forbidden. Exaggeration in praise is also not *allowed. |
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