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It is said in the Holy Quran,
( And do not desire in things in
which Allah has given dignity (blessing) among you over others. For
the Men Folk is what they earn and for the women is what they earn.
Solicit blessing from Allah. Surely Allah is aware of all the
things,. It is also in the Holy Quran I seek refuge from the evil of
the Jealous when he is (bentyupon) doing **jealousy.
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*: Hazrat Miqdad (companion) says,
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) has said that
when you find some one exaggerating in praise for some one else,
fill his mouth with dust. When he hard some one praising in excess,
he said the man has broken the back of his friend. On other occasion
when a man praised his friend (more than due) he said you have cut
the throat of your brother, he repeated this three times to stress
the point. When some one finds it necessary to praise some one he
should not say as if with conviction. He should qualify his praise
with expressions such as In my opinion, I thing so and so etc. The
truth is known to Allh. The man should never claim conviction and
fulness of knowledge.
**: The Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace be upon him) has said Jealousy eats own (destroys)
good things as the jungle fire eats away trees , branches, etc. And
sadaqah eliminates vices as water puts off fire. He also said,
Jealousy spoils Eimaan as ALOES spoils the honey. Further on
jealously spoils back biting and saying are as away form me as I am
from them. Muslim brother
EVIL OF TYRANNY
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, "any one who owes money to some
one, he must get it cleared (paid off) before the advent of the Day
(of Judgement) when there shall be worldly riches to settle the
account, but the good deeds in his account to pay off the debt (of
the world) which (the deeds) shall be given to the other man. If
there is no deed or his deed fall short the evil deed of other man
shall be dumped in his balance (to make his own evil deeds heavier
and lighter of the other man). He once asked his companion, do you
know who is poor. They said they regard the amn as poor who has no
money in his possession. He said, In my Ummah the poor is one who
comes with plenty of good deeds by way of prayers, fasting etc. but
he had also abused some once usurped money and shed blood in the
world. In order to settle his accounts his good deeds shall be
transferred to those who right be he usurped. IF his good deed fall
short the evil deeds of the affected person shall be thrust in his
balance and he will be condemned to remain in hell for ever.
He has also siad, Any one who
endeavours to seek Pleasure of Allah at the cost of displeasure of
the people, Allah will suffice him from the evils of people. But if
any one who tires to please people at the cost of the displeasure of
Allah, Allah will entrust him with the people who will deal with him
as they like (Allah's protection and safeguard will not be available
to him) He also siad, The most wretched man on the Day of Judgment
shall be one for the sake of worldly betterments of others, spoiled
his own fortunes for the Day of the Judgment.
He has further said, Protect your
self from the curse and imprecation of an oppressed amn because when
he will demand his rights, Allah does not deny any rightful man of
his rights (even in the world).
ANGER AND PRIDE
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, Anger spoils the Eiman as ELWA
(ALOES) spoils the honey. He also said, he who protect (safeguard)
his tongue (from evil) Allah will cover his blemishes, and one who
checks his anger, Allah will withhold His Punishment and one who
seeks pardon (forgiveness) from Allah, He will grant him pardon! He
has further said, Anger comes from satan and satan was created from
fire, there fore when one is overtaken by anger, he should make
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Continue**: should keep themselves
away form mutual jealousy, enmity and back biting. He has said
"Allah on the night of 15th of shaban send down special splendour on
his chosen servants. Those who seek forgiveness them. those who seek
Mercy He grants them Mercy but He leaves those alone who bear enmity
against one another." He also said "Twice in the week Monday and
Thursday the deeds record of the people are presented before Allah.
He forgives all except those who bear enmity against one other. He
will not forgive them unless they mend their ways.
ablution (with water) as water
puts off the fire. He has also said, When a man becomes, he should
sit down, if he is standing. If the anger does not subside, he must
he down flat on the ground.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) speaking about the proud and the haughty
people, the fact of these people will be that they will squeezed in
the frames of ants but their faces will those man, there shall be
all round curses on them, they will be dragged to the prison house
of the hell, there shall be fire of the hell on them and they shall
be made to drink the squeezed liquid of the hell dwellers. The final
abode of the proud people is in the hell, according to the Holy
Quran. He also said, "May I tell you about the people of the
paradise? they are the people whom the unknowing and uninformed
people of the world regard them as weak and resource less but they
so near in the Presence of Allah that if they swear in the Name of
Allah, Allah will grant them forthwith whatever they wish. He
further said, "should I not in something of hell dwellers, they are
hard cored, hard natured proud and haughty people (condemned and
accursed from the inception of the universe with their arch devil
satan). He also said, one who presents himself as meek and humble
for the sake of Allah, Allah elevated him to great heights, thought
the people of the world regard as small and of no consequence. And
one how shows himself off as great and honourable before the people,
Allah degrades and lowers him in status and he is looked down upon
and disgraced in the eyes of those very people. The Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) has said that there are three
things which procure Deliverance and there are things which lead to
destruction. The things which promise deliverance are (10 Adopt
Taqwa (fear of Allah) openly and secretly for the sake of Allah (2)
Speak the truth in moments of joy and grief and (3) Adopt moderation
in the days of affluence as well as in days of adversity. And the
these things which lead to destructions are (1) Follow and pursue
the evil desires and the path of evils (2) Slavery (object
surrender) to stinginess and avarice.
SEVERANCE AND CUTTING OFF CONTACTS
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon
him) has said, "It is permissible (advisable) for a man to abandon
his brother for more than three days at a stretch, and better of the
two is he who offer salam (greetings) first. The amn seeking reunion
should offer salam three times. If still the other amn does not
respond, the blame for it should be diverted
to uncompromising companion. He
also said, if a man abandons his brother (in faith) for over a year,
it is as if he has killed him. If a man severs connection with his
muslim for more than days and dies without re union, he will be
hurled in the hell.
ETIQUETTES OF TREATMENT
The following verses of the Holy
Quran illustrate the fundamental etiquettes of treatments and
behaviour in respect of adherence to worship of Almighty Allah,
obedience to Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
respect and service of parents, elders and other fellow beings in
Islam and the society.
Those who break Allah's convent
after it is ratified and those who break what has ordered to be
joined and do mischief on earth. These cause losses to themselves. (Baqarah
II:verse 27)
And Your Lord has decreed that you
worship none but Him and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or
both of them attain in your life, say not to them a word of contempt
and act of kindness lower to them the wing of humility and say My
Lord bestow on them Your Mercy even as they cherished me in
childhoods.
(Bani Israel:verse 23-24)
The grand father of Bahaz bin
Hakeem say, I asked the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him) O Prophet of Allah! with whom should I render service of
humility and sympathy. He replied, With your mother. (the question
was asked three times nad thrice the same answer was given> On the
fourth occasion the answer was 'With your father, then with those
who are near to him and those near to them.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, " The one rendering obligation
after his father or in his absence with his friend. Hazrat Asma bin
Abu Bak'r Siddique (May Allah be pleased with him) says 'During the
days when there was a path between the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) adn the Quraish, my mother who was
non-believer, came to me. I asked the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) what treatment should I render to her who is
not in the fold of Islam? He replied, Treat her with kindness (and
reverence due to a mother). This shows that even with non-believing
parents, treatment should be according to their status as parents.
He has siad, One of the major sins is to abuse one's parents. The
companions were surprised as to how and why so some one should
abuses the father of another who abuses in return the father of the
abuser (This is causing abuse to one's own father!). This may be
even with mother and other respectable relations. This was during
the Day of Ignorance (Jahiliyah or pre-Islam).
It is shocking that now a day, the
respect of the parents is on the decline not by others, but their
own children.
He has also said, "The pleasure of
Allah lies in the pleasures of the father, and the displeasure of
Allah is hidden in the displeasure of the father."
One man came to the companion Abul
Durda and said that his mother is commanding him to divorce his wife
and he did not know what to do. Hazrat Abul Durda replied, I have
heard the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) saying
that mother is the middle door of the Paradise. Now it depends upon
your pleasure to preserve and safeguard that door or destroy it".
He has further said, " Parents are
the paradise and hell for the children, if they are kept pleased the
reward is paradise and if they are displeased and teased the
punishment of hell shall be their lot". Further more he had said, "
One who begins his day on rising in the morning in a state that he
had obeyed his parents the doors of Paradise is opened for him. And
one who begins his morning in such a condition that he had disobeyed
his parents, the doors of hell are opened for him since morning
(which means in the hell throughout the day) and if there only one
of the parents, then only one door of hell is opened since morning."
A companion asked if the parents tyrannize him that is, if they
behave like tyrants, He said, even though they tyrannize, even
though they tyrannize, even though they tyrannize (three times).
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, " When the children look at their
parents with love and tenderness, Almighty Allah for every look of
theirs grants the reward of one Hajj-e-Mabrur."
People asked him, even if they look at 100 times a day? He said,
"Allah is Great and Generous, He has Power over everything. He is
free from limitations which may restrict His Benevolence and
Blessing. One companion come to the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace be upon him) and said that he desired to go on Jihad (crusade)
and fighten in the way of Allah, He asked him if his mother was
alive. The companion replied she was there (alive). The Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
commanded him to go and serve
(obediently and zealously) his mother. This paradise lies near the
feet of the mother.
He has said that, mannan (who
renders an act of kindness) who puts and displays, obligation of his
deed on others the one who disobeys his parents and the habitual
drunkard will not be admitted in the paradise (i.e. their abode is
hell!).
He advised another companion who
wanted to know how he could serve his parents who are no more alive,
he told him he should pray to Allah for their forgiveness, fulfill
the promises (contracts etc) his parents had with others, tread
kindly those relations who were treated likewise by his parents,
give due honour and respect to their friend etc.He said the
treatment of elder brother to his younger brother is like the father
to his son.
As for the maintenance of mutual
relations the Divine Dispensation is that who joined and keep it
intact Allah also keep him (safe and)intact, and one who severs it.
Allah also shatters and keep him disjointed.
He also said "One who desires
munificence in his livelihood and prolong his age, he should behave
kindly and affectionately with his kins. There is also the mention
of protection against a wretched death and the Prophet advise for
constancy in praying for forgiveness from Almighty Allah.
He also said, The best modes of
moral conducts are, `Try to keep contact with him who dissociates
with you', `Forgive him who oppresses you', `One who desires that
his age may prolong and there be increase in his livelihood he
should behave affectionately with his kith and kin. (Sila-e-Rahmi).
PROBLEM:-
`Sila-e-Rahmi', stands for joined adn (steadfastly) maintaining the
blood relations, by kind and affectionate treatment. There is
consensus in the Ummah that Sila-e-Rahmi (maintaining blood relation
by good and benevolent treatment) is wajib and Qata-e-Rami (cutting
off, severance of blood relations by bad or oppressive treatment) is
Haram.
There are different grades among
the relations who come within the purview of Sila-e-Rahmi (also
called Zawil Qurba, having close relationship) and the treatment
towards them varies according to their status. The status of the
parents among worldly relations, is supreme most, after them the
blood relation and after them, all other family relations (as
distinct from formal and spoken relations).
PROBLEM:-
There are many ways to treat and affectionately deal with the blood
relations, namely (10 give them gifts and presents (2) to help and
accomplish their work and necessity in which your help is sought (3)
to wish them well adn often visit them at home, sit and converse
with on matters of mutual interest and welfare, and behave with them
in kind and pleasant manner.
PROBLEM:-
If this relation is staying in another locality country to maintain
correspondence contact with him and enquire about his progress and
personal well being etc. This and other friends modes of treatment
will ever keep the relationship fresh and progressive.
PROBLEM:-
If the man himself is staying in a foreign country and his parent
call him home he should fulfill there wish by personally coming down
to them cool their eyes and warm up their affectionate treatment.
After the father the next
relations deserving benevolent treatment are the grand father and
the elder brother. Elder brother is a kin to father, elder sister
and khala (mother's sister) one next to mothers place. Some scholars
regard uncle next to father.
PROBLEM:-
The relationship and mutual understanding must be kept alive by
frequent to and for visit or by maintaining correspondence among
them. Exchange of gifts and presents will also strengthen the bonds
of relationship.
PROBLEM:- It is reported in the hadees sharif
that through sila-e-rahmi (maintaining the ties of relationship by
all possible means) the age span expands which means longivity, and
there is abundance in livelihood. Some scholars are of the opinion
that by longivity is not meant the span of life beyond the destined
person of life (which is not subject to change in life years in the
world but they
opine that after death the reward of good deeds increase which in
other words means that the man is still alive and progressing
(spiritually and non-sensationally of course!) or it means that
after death his mention among the ahl-e-khair (people of good deeds,
maintained).
AFFECTION ON OFFSPRING AND MERCY TOWARDS ORPHANS
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, "One who makes an orphan on equal
partner in his sinner, Allah will make the Paradise as an essential
(wajib) reward for him, except when he has not committed a major sin
for which there is no forgiveness." And any one takes three girls or
three sister under his patronage, gives them good education and
treat them affectionately, till they become self earning and no
longer need the patronage of their guardian, then ALLAH will make
Paradise wajib, (an essential reward) for him. In that meeting he
confirmed that Allah will bestow the some reward for a man who
patronizes two girls/sisters. If the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace be upon him) was asked about one girl, he would have given the
same reply.
He said, The man whose two
dignified organs (Kareematain) have been taken away by the
Providence, for him Paradise is wajib (a must reward). Explaining
Kareematain (two dignified organs) he said "Two Eyes".
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) once asked his companions should I not tell
you what the most blissful sadaqah is? (He said) The sadaqah
(charitable deed) which he offers for that daughter of his who has
come back to him, meaning thereby that either her husband is dead,
or he has been divorced and as such has come back to her father
there is no one else to support and look after her.
He said, `None should bury his
daughter alive, nor insult and disgrace her nor give preference to
his male children over her Allah will grant him Paradise.'
He also said, ` Any
one how teaches one aspect of good manner, it is better than one
sa'a of sadaqah.' He also said, "there is no other gift, for a
father to give to his children more valuable and precious than to
teach manners to his children. Some more Ahadees in this respect are
summarized below,
"Give respect and honour to your
children and teach them excellent moral behaviours."
"Distribute equally between your
children. If I were to give preference I would give it to girls
(daughter)."
"Observe justice (and fair play)
in whatever you give to your children if you expect that they should
also be fair and just in rendering service and kindness to you."
"Allah likes that you observe
justice in your treatment towards your children even while kissing
them (out of fondness and afection)."
"One who supports an orphan (of
his family or others) he and I will be in the Paradise so close as
the two joining fingers are."
" One who passes his hand over the
head of an orphan for the pleasure of Allah, Allah will give him for
each hair that comes below his hand. And one who does any deed of
benevolence out of affection with any orphan boy or orphan girl, I
and he will be in the Paradise so close as the two adjoining fingers
of a hand. Whenever he passes his hand over the head of an orphan
boy the movement of his hand should be from backward to forward
(neck to forehead) while doing so for his own son (or any boy of the
family or else's), other than orphan, the movement of the hand
towards the neck (forehead to neck).
RIGHTS OF NEIGHBOURS
The Holy Quran says,
(" Ser ALLAH and join not any
partners with Him, And do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those
in need neighbours who are near neighbours who are strangers, the
companion by your side, the way fares and what your hand possess,
for Allah loves not the arrogant the vainglorious.")
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said "BY Allah! he is not Momin, which
the companions requested him to say who that person was", he
replied, "the man from whose repressive treatments his neighbours
are not safe."
He said, "the man will not enter
the Paradise at whose hands are not in peace."
He said, "The man who believes in
Allah and the Last Day (Day of Judgment), should treat his
neighbours with dignity and honour."
Hazrat Abdullah bin Mas'ood has
reported that Once a man come and asked the Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace be upon him) how can he know whether the deed done
by him was it good or otherwise? The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace be upon him) replied, `When you hear your neighbours that you
ahve done good, the deed is good. Similarly, when you hear your
neighbours saying you have done wrong (bad) it is so.'
He has said, "Momin is not that
man who eats full stomach while his neighbour nearby lies hungry."
He has said, "Whenever some one
cooks (tasty) thing, he should increase the broth whereby he can
serve his neighbour."
"A woman who is very excessively
performing religious dues of prayers (salat), fasting etc, but due
to her sharp and abusive tongue her neighbours are not in peace",
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) said about
that woman `she is in hell' (she is destined to go to hell).
Likewise about a woman who was said to be less devoted to religious
acts but she behaved with her neighbours kindly and co-operatively,
the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) said, "she is
in Paradise." (i.e. her destination on the Day of Judgement Paradise
and Allah's Pleasure).
He has said, "Allah has
distributed good moral conduct among you as He has distributed the
means of sustenance, He bestows the word to one who is dear to Him
as also to him whom He does not admire. But the Deen (The straight
Path) of Religion only to the person who is beloved in His Presence.
Therefore the amn who is blessed with the Blessings of Religion (Deen)
is also Dear to Allah as His chosen servant. I swear in the Name of
One in Whose Hand is my sour, a man can not he a (true) Musalman
unless his heart and tongue are also not Musalman, (testify the
Eimaan and Islam by his thoughts and utterances.) and so long as his
neighbours are not in piece at his hands."
He has said, "For a Muslim it is a
matter of worldly blessing if he has a pious and virtuous neighbour,
spacious house to live and comfortable means of transport. And do
you know what are the rights of your neighbour towards you. There
are, "You should help him when he asks you,
Lend him money when he request
you.
You should attend to him when he
become ill.
Congratulate him when something
lucky and pleasing come to him.
Console and pacify him when he is
in distress.
Attend to his funeral when he
dies.
Do not raise your walls higher
than his without his consent.
Give him no trouble, rather give
him something lasty from your cooked stuff.
When you buy fruits present him
something from it or else bring them in your home without his
knowledge.
Continuing stress of the rights
due to the neighbours, the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him) said, In the name of One in whose hand is my soul, there
are very few people who are aware of the right of the neighbours and
fulfill their. These are the people whom Allah has blessed. The Holy
Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
stressed the rights of the neighbour so much that the people
thought the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him)
would make them the
sharers in the inheritance of their property. Then he said, "Neighbours
are of three kinds, some have two rights towards their people and
some have only one right. The neighbour who is Muslim and is also a
relation, he has three rights (1) The right of Relationship. The
Muslim neighbour has two rights namely (1) the right of
neighborhood. The companions asked the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) if they should offer them any thing from
their sacrifices, he replied that `nothing need he given to him'.
PROBLEM:-
If by going up the roof and terrace if the privacy of the neighbour
is violated, then either the walls of one's house should be raised
so that there may not be any complaint in this behalf ,
alternatively going up the terrace may be discarded for the sake of
the neighbours convenience.
KINDNESS TOWARDS THE PEOPLE
It is said in the Holy Quran,
(Help and co-operate with one
another in matters of goodness and righteousness and do not help any
in matters of evil and transgression.)
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) also said, Allah does not show Mercy to those
who show no sympathy and kindness towards the people.
Summary of more Ahadees in this
connection is given below,
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, That man is not in our fold how is
not kindly disposed towards the youngster and does not show respect
and reverence to the elders does not inspire for doing good and
avoiding the evil. It is reported through Hazrat Anas, if the young
man accords respect to an elderly man in consideration of his age
then Allah will depute men to show honour to that young man when he
reaches that advance age.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, When (a kind hearted man) of my
Ummah fulfills the necessities of a Muslim brother with intentions
to please him, he pleases me. And one who pleases me, he pleases
Allah Who will admit him in the Paradise.
He said, Any one who does justice
to an oppressed men Allah will reward him with seventy three
forgiveness, only one which shall be enough to fulfill all his
ambitious and the remaining seventy two forgiveness will cause
enhancement of his on the Day of Judgment to that extent.
He said, All Momins are like a
unified one person, If an eye pains him, the entire body suffers and
feels the pain, Similarly the ailment in the head (or any other
part) becomes the ailment of the whole body.
He said, A Momin is like another
Momins edifice, one part of it strengthens and solidifies the
edifice of the other. The he joined two fingers of his hand to show
how two fingers when joined together become source of strength,
moralizing thereby that Muslims should remain united providing
strength to one another.
He said, A Momin is another Momins
brother. He should neither oppress him nor leave him at the mercy of
others and one who engages himself to fulfill necessities of another
man Allah engages Himself to solve that man problems and
difficulties.
He said, Any one who removes one
pain from the pains of other man, Allah on the Day of Judgment, will
remove one calamity from the calamities of that Day. And one who
covers and hides the evil of his Muslim brother, Allah will cover
his blemishes on the Day of Judgment.
He said, A Momin is not a Momin
unless he likes (and provides) for his brother what he likes for
himself.
He said, Give treatment to other
according to their status and dignity. It is hard to have a single
grade of treatment for all and sundry. However cares should be taken
that in treating people differently, no insult and humility should
be caused to nay one.
He said, All the creatures (People
at large) are like the member of Divine Family and the dearest among
them is he who renders self service to others (of the members).
He said, Where you be fear Allah
all the time. It an evil deed is committed, offset it by doing an
act of goodness. The good deed will effect and eliminate the effects
of the evil deed.
PRETENCE AND EXPECTING FALSE PRAISE
The exact words mentioned as
sub-head line of this subject are "RIYA" which stands for Hypocrisy,
preference or out word display of some permissible deed or deeds to
establish some pretended sincerity and honesty while the real facts
are just the opposite.
The others word of the caption is
"SUMAH" derived from the Arabic root word sumah (to hear). here the
intentions is that people may hear about of the deed without seeing
and knowing personally and praise the does of the good deed. The
purpose in this case is the hypocritical ambition of listening
praise from the people who are unaware of the real facts, in that
the doer is hungry of self praise.
Both these traits are symptoms of
hypocrisy, as the deed done are not honestly intented nor sincerely
performed. Obviously these deeds of goodness in themselves do not
fetch the promised reward, on the contrary the become source of
punishment from Allah.
It is said in the Holy Quran,
(O believers! do not falsify
(render useless) your deeds of charity through expecting praise and
causing trouble, like the man who spend his money just to show to
the people.) It is further said,
(One who hopes to meet his Lord
sustainer (Allah), he should perform deeds of Goodness and not
associate any one in the worship of his One Allah, the Lord
Sustainer. (The learned scholars are of the opinion that this verse
is by way of forbidding hypocrisy - Riya).
At another place it is said in the
Holy Quran castigating those who are neglectful of their prayer and
when they offer prayer (salat) it is to show to the people.
Curse on those offerers of salat
who are negligent (sloth) in their prayer and which they offer to
show to the people and who refuse to lent for the time being even
small things of daily use. It is also said.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said that Allah does not look at your
faces your wealth, He looks towards your heart and your deeds.
He also said, One who does a good
thing so that people hear about it, Allah will make (his punishment)
to be heard adn one who does a good thing as a pretense, he will
suffer too his pretense (in which case good deeds become
unrewarding).
He further said, Even a minute
part of hypocrisy is Shirk (denying Tauheed). Among the servants of
Allah the most beloved ones are those who hide themselves from the
general people such that if they intend to be unidentified, people
can not recognize them, and if they give evidence (in the open) they
still remain unrecognized. They are the leaders (Imams) of the
guidance (Hidayat) and Bright Lamps of knowledge.
He was once heard saying, One who
offers with "riya" (to show to the people and not with devotion), he
commits shirk (unbelief and associating some else with Allah), And
one who keeps fast with "riya" he (too) is guilty of shirk, And one
who offers sadaqah with `riya'j he also commits shirk.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, I apprehend my Ummah clandestine
shirk and lust. When companion asked him if people commit shirk
after him, he said `yes' but they will not worship, the sun, the
moon, the stone-god and idols, but they will commit hypocrisy in
their deeds the hidden lust or passion means that in the morning the
man will keep the fast but under some (impulsive) desire, he will
break the fast (before schedule).
He said, On the Day of Judgment,
the first man whose case shall be decided the `shaheed' (martyr). He
will be presented before Almighty Allah Who will ask him about His
Bounties, which he will admit. He will be asked, how he repaid the
bounties the man will say that he fought in His (Allah) Way and was
martyred Allah will chastise him and say, You are liar, you fought
so that people may call you brave, which they did. (indicating that
what he desired, he got!). The man will then be asked to be dragged
on his face and thrust in the hell. Then another man will be called
for accountability this man had learnt and taught the Holy Quran. He
will be asked about the bounties of the Providence which he will
name as having been benefited by them. He will be asked as to how he
repaid these Divine Bounties. He will say that he secured knowledge,
learnt and taught the Holy Quran for His Pleasure. He will be
condemned as a liar because he secured knowledge and taught Quran so
that the people may praise him,
praise him, which he
was acclaimed and thus got what he wanted. He will be dragged to the
hell like the Shaheed before.
Thereafter the third man who was
blessed with plenty of riches and luxuries of every description. He
will be asked how he repaid the Bounties of Allah. He will also
claim that he spent his wealth to the cause of Allah. He will
declared as a liar or because he spent his money on luxuries and
whatever he gave to the poor and the needy, it was merely an act of
pretense. Like the earlier men he will be dragged to the hell as a
punishment for his hypocrisy.
The Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) has said, One whose desires (and deeds) are
directed for the deliverance and success in the Hereafter, Allah
will bless him with the quality of self-sufficiency
(self-sufficiency or Istighna), fulfill all his desires and the
world will come unto him in an object slavish manner (begging his
favour). And the man who sole ambition is to indulge in the world
and its affairs, poverty adn paincity will become his fortune, his
ambitions and affairs shall be shattered (far from being
fulfilled!). He will get (not according to his desires) but whatever
he is destined to get. Hazrat Abu Hurairah once went to the Holy
Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) and reported that one
day he was offering prayer inside his house when a man suddenly
appeared before and saw Hazrat Abu Hurairah in this condition. He
felt pleasure that he was seen in this condition. He asked the Holy
Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) if it was not riya
(pretense). He informed Abu Hurairah that he was twice blessed, for
offering prayer secretly as well as openly. Engagement in prayer is
exclusively for Almighty Allah and should be offered will all
sincerity for this exclusive aim. If on being seen by the people
(unintentionally) creates a feeling of delight, it is as a natural
impulse which has nothing to do with riya (pretense or hypocrisy).
It can be said that the reward (or
punishment) for any good deed depends up on the sincerity and
honesty of he intention or Niyat. Anything of self pleasure through
praise by the people or gaining popularity which cause self-elation
all there amount to Riya (pretense) or sunn'ah (bearing of own's
praise and the pleasure by) and their requital in the Hereafter is
hell, as we have in the aforesaid Hadees in which the fated of
self-styled martyr, the religious scholar and the man of resources
all of whom pretended to perform deed of virtues through means at
their disposal and were ultimately dragged to hell, there eternal
abode.
PROBLEM:-
It is better to perform deed of goodness in such a way that there
should not be any trace of self-praise or self-elation. And if one
asks about it, the answer should be plainly affirmative without
mincing words. If an attempt is made to hide the fact in a way that
the secret comes out, then it amounts to riya or pretense.
There are states of Riya
(pretense) (1) Some time the pretender does this mischief with the
real modes of worship. For example, He offers namaz, when he is sure
that people are looking at him. If no man is not there to look at
him, even when the time of prayers is running, he will not offer
namaz, this is the kind perfect Riya (Hypocrisy) and there is no
reward for such a worship.
The second state of Riya is that
there is no riya in the mode of worship itself. Whether there is any
one or not to witness his worship, but the difference lies in the
quality of worship which becomes evident when some one else is with
or near and when there is none near about. Obviously, this is a riya
of a lessor grade. Why should there be any difference in the quality
of performance of good deed? The soul or essence of the deed should
be criterion and not the presence or absence of men around.
PROBLEM:-
IF a man is keeping fast, he should hide or waver to admit this fact
when some one him about this? Some time people shy to admit when
they are in the midst of non-observers of fasting who at times make
fun of simple natural Momin in the modern society where religion is
looked down upon as a secondary aspect of life.
PROBLEM:-
People demand or receive money for reciting Holy
Quran for the Eisal-e-Sawab of a deceased or some fixed occasions.
This is a type of Riya. If the money is not given he does not recite
the Holy Quran. Reciting Quran with a wage does no good to the
reciter or the one who invites him for this purpose. In such a
situation the fate of the deceased hangs in balance! He is benefited
only when some person recites the Holy Quran purely for the soul of
the deceased with no ulterior or monetary behind.
PROBLEM:-
When a person goes on Haj carrying some goods, articles of sale.
Obviously his pilgrimage to the Holy Land has twin purposes (1)
performing Haj and (2) sale of goods to earn benefits which is
permissible under Shariat Laws. He motives and preference between
the two purpose will decide which reward is his lot. If the basic
intentions is (and it should be so) to perform Haj with single
minded devotion so that it may be rewarded in the Presence of Allah,
and do the business if any time is available during free times
during Haj or better still, after the Haj. This will fetch him both
the rewards of the Deen and the dunya. If, unfortunately his primary
intentions is to earn profits through business and perform haj a
secondary issue, then he is doomed to be cursed. The worldly benefit
(profit) will not last long, but his loss in both the world will be
eternal.
PROBLEM:-
There is no Riya or show off pretense in the performance of Farz
parts of the worship[. The Farz segment of the worship[p, performed
even will Riya shall be taken as having been attended. It is however
a separate issue if it is accepted or not. If there fore when the
Farz is compulsorily to be performed, then why do this with
sincerity and with out pretense or riya.
EISAL-E-SAWAB
PROBLEM:-
Eisal-e-Sawab means to convey the blessings of the Recitation of the
Holy Quran, Durud Sharif, and other recites and prayers etc to the
souls of the deceased Momin men and women so that they may be
blessed with Divine Grace and Mercy in the spiritual universe, where
they stationed after their death. The modes of Eisal-e-Sawab may
also be practical deeds carrying eternal reward. This is permissible
and to call it `bidat' or something of this kind is cruel. It is
also proved by the Ahadees of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and
peace be upon him) beside some of authentic religious Books written
by eminent scholars of Islam.
It is reported that when the
mother of Hazrat Sa'ad died, he came to the Holy Prophet (Allah's
grace and peace be upon him) and asked what sadaqah is most
blissful. He replied "Water". Hazrat Sa'ad dug and constructed a
well of sweet water and dedicated to his mother. This indicates that
good and beneficial deeds by the living carry (eternal) blessing for
the should of the deceased. This is what is known as
sadaqah-e-jariya. (The deed of charity carrying eternal recurring
blessing). There are many such deeds which come within the purview
of sadaqah-e-jariya, for details learned scholars and relevant books
may be consulted.
There are many customs and
ceremonies adopted for the Eisal-e-Sawab. There are no fixed days
and processes of this purpose. The fundamental point to be kept in
mind that every thing done should be with honest and pure intention
without any semblance of personal status. The Eisal-e-Sawab is meant
and dedicated the souls of the deceased. It is there fore imperative
that whatever is conveyed must be genuinely pure worth approval of
Divine Grace and Mercy.
ASSEMBLIES OF DIVINE BLESSINGS
PROBLEM:-
Meelad Sharif (celebration of the Birthday) of the Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) is not only permissible but
also it is the fountain head of spiritual and mundane blessings. To
celebrate this most auspicious day of the year, meetings,
assemblies, conventions, seminars adn public meetings are held in
open grounds, or within the four walls of mosques and houses. In
these gathering the special features of life history and Prophetic
Accomplishments of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon
him) are mentioned with due dignity and veneration by learned
scholars and religious leaders which people listen with devoted
attention.
In the Majlis-e-Milad are ritual
are faithfully observed and there is no room for any objection or
criticism about. It is the revential Love, Affections and Devotions
towards the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be upon him) that
is the prime motive for holding such spiritual gathering.
Distribution of street etc is also one of the features of these
gathering.
In these majalis at the time when
auspicious moment of the Birth of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace
and peace be upon him) is mentioned during the course of speeches
etc. the entire audience stands up as a mark of respect of devoted
homage to the greatest Benefactor of mankind Hazrat Muhammad Mustafa
(Sallallaho Aliai Wa Sallam). This is perfectly justified rather it
is source of blessing for all the participants. AT that auspicious
occasions recitation of Durud-o-Salaam and praised poetical
renderings are also rehearsed. It is reported that in these
auspicious assemblage some great devotees have been blessed with
anguish visual presence of the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace
be upon him) we commoners who can not and should not claim any
spiritual perfection must respectfully accept this very very rare
bestowment from the heavenly kingdom upon the chosen people bellow
and through them the general aspirants of Divine Blessings.
In majlis-e-Milad Sharif and other
religious gathering are organized to celebrate special occasion or
personalities. For example, Majlis-e-Meraj Sharif, which as its name
suggests, is celebrated the most unique auspicious in the history of
the universe (both heaven and the earth) when the Holy Prophet
(Allah's grace and peace be upon him) went in the Journey of the
heavenly universe on the Night of Ascension known as Meraj Sahrif.
In those blissful assemblies the events of that Journey are narrated
which inspire and invigorate the Emanic Impulses of the Momins.
PROBLEM:- Death Anniversaries of the
Khulafa-e-Rashideen (May Allah be pleased with them) are also
celebrated which also are permissible and must be regarded as
occasions of remembrance of great achievements of these most revered
personalities after the Holy Prophet (Allah's grace and peace be
upon him).
PROBLEM:-
Holding of 10 Days Majlises in the month of Muharram is also valid
in which the events of the Karbala are narrated to remind the Ummah
that without the supreme sacrifice of the people of Ahle-e-Bait the
survival and eternal permance of Islam would not have been possible
because the forces of evil and corruption were greatly and
perilously determined to out do Islam in those turbulent days of
Islamic history.
(Note: Other details relating
ceremonies, rituals, recitation of Marsias and other practices which
are apparently un Islamic and have authentic reliable evidence in
religious Books have been deliberately omitted. These details can be
seen on pages 424 - 425 of the Book Published by Muslihuddin
Publications, Memon Masjid, Muslihuddin Garden, Karachi).
MISCELLANEOUS
PROBLEM:- Among all the languages prevalent
at the moment. The Arabic Language is the Most Perfect and Most
Dignified. It is the language of the Holy Quran. This will also be
enguage to be used among the Dwellers of Paradise. One who learned
and teaches Arabic will be Divinely rewarded. It is essential for
all the muslim to learn Arabic, so as to be able to comprehend
Islamic Books especially the principles and details of Islamic Laws
which are mostly in Arabic.
PROBLEM:- Moral stories and Fables can be
studied, because they contain principles in the garb of
intelligently intended fables which serve as useful guide lines for
the conduct of problems of daily occurrence in the life.
OTHERS MISCELLANEOUS PROBLEMS
One who owes debts and refuses to
repay then the creditor can take anything of equal value belonging
to the debtor.
Speaking in a soft persuasive
manner is a virtue, but it should not be mistaken as flattery.
Locust is a lawful bird, it can be
killed for eating.
Bribery becomes permissible in
exceptional circumstances, when there is danger to life and honour,
when some immediate delicate issues depend on it, as an inducement
for receiving one's own dues.
Calling father (owner) by name is
makrooh. Naming him as a matter of course amounts to degration, and
as a show of familiarity which breeds contempt.
To wish own death and to pray for
it is makrooh, especially when it is on account of excessive
hardship. However in cases of increasing immorality and deviation
from path of morality and guidance and there is fear of one's
involvement then death as an escape is desirable, even then it is
better to pray for solidarity of Eiman to resist to evil rather that
to submit the pressure and erare for death.
Plague as an epidemic is curse,
but those are in the legion where plague has broken out should run
away from there nor other should go there.
To call certain months and dates
as bad omen is not correct. To take omen for and against in respect
of anythings is not correct.
To rely on astronomy, astronomy or
any occult science is forbidden.
Jan Mantar etc are mere
superstitions. |